I read every talk on virtue I could find, searched the scriptures, and prayed, but I could not organize my thoughts and had absolutely nothing written as Sunday got closer and closer. The gospel library on this particular topic is very sparse, and hardly anyone has specifically addressed this story in these terms. I bugged Jonathon almost nightly to help me organize my thoughts and figure out a direction. He encouraged me to keep trying, but I was starting to get really frustrated and almost angry. Finally, on Friday night I sat down at the computer, said a little prayer, and started to dig deeper and deeper into the topic. Finally, inspiration started to come. I felt a "pouring out of the spirit," and I just kept typing as fast as I could. Everyone else went to bed, but I kept writing because finally the direction that I needed to take was clear. I definitely felt a calmness and peace as I gave the talk, which was a blessing in itself.
I wanted to include the full talk here so that I have it recorded somewhere. It is long, but I hope that it will remind me that Heavenly Father wants us to struggle, to dig deep, to really study it out in our minds and hearts... or in other words, to add virtue to our lives. This process will open the gates to inspiration and bring us strength and power. I truly learned and experienced the principle that I was asked to speak about during my preparations. God works in mysterious ways, but it is always for the good of His children. For that I am thankful.
The Power and Strength of Virtue
I would like to start off
with a story that many of you probably recognize:
Many years ago, there was a
woman who was sick with a disease. She suffered terribly because of this
ailment and was an outcast from society. She visited many doctors and spent all
of her money trying to get help, but her condition only got worse and worse. 12
years she struggled with this disease. At that time, there began to be rumors
in the area of a man who had power to heal the sick. The woman heard of this
man’s power and believed.
If you haven’t already
guessed, the woman in the story is the “woman with the issue of blood” from the
scriptures and the man that had power to heal was Jesus Christ.
One day there was a large
crowd following Christ. This woman squeezed her way through the thick crowds
and reached toward him, believing that if she could “touch but his clothes, she
would be made whole.” As soon as she touched Christ’s clothing, she was
immediately healed.
Mark 5:30 “And Jesus,
immediately knowing in himself that virtue had gone out of him, turned him
about in the press, and said, Who touched my clothes?”[1]
The disciples were very confused because there
were people everywhere and they didn’t understand how Jesus knew that someone
touched Him.
The woman then fell down
before Him and told Him the truth and he replied “Daughter, thy faith hath made
thee whole; go in peace, and be whole of thy plague.”
Today, I would like to focus
on one verse in particular. It says that Jesus “felt virtue go out of him” as
the woman was healed. So, what is this virtue that the scriptures are
describing and why is it important to us?
We often think of virtue in
association with moral cleanliness and chastity. These are essential
characteristics of virtue, but virtue is so much more.
In this story, we get the
sense that virtue is a real physical force that is being transferred. A power
that is felt by both Christ and the woman.
The King James Version of the
Bible uses the word “virtue” which is translated from the Latin word virtus meaning strength; In the original Greek, the word was dunamis meaning power or
strength. So, we can re-read the scripture “And Jesus, immediately knowing
in himself that power or strength had gone out of him, turned him about in the
press, and said, Who touched my clothes?”
As she reached out to touch
Christ, the woman with the issue of blood had such faith that she was able to
access some of Christ’s power, and his power (or virtue) healed her.
Modern prophets, apostles,
and church leaders have helped us understand a little bit more about the
meaning of virtue.
Elder D. Todd Christopherson
said about this story, “Remember that Jesus’s power (virtue) came through His
single-minded devotion to the will of the Father.” Because he was virtuous and
holy, Christ could freely use God’s power.[2]
According to James E. Faust,
“Virtue in its fuller sense encompasses all traits of righteousness that helps
us form our character.”[3]
Elaine S. Dalton said,
“Virtue is a pattern of thought and behavior based on high moral standards. It
is the accumulation of thousands of small decisions and actions.”[4]
If we add those ideas all
together, a working definition of virtue for us might be:
“Virtue is consistent
righteous (or holy) living that gives us access to power and strength.”
And just a side note here:
Virtue and the priesthood are intrinsically connected. We refer to the power of
God given to man as the priesthood. Men that hold the priesthood can use God’s
power to bless and heal others, but only if they are living in accordance with
His teachings, i.e. they are living a virtuous life. But women can also receive the strength and
power of virtue through their own righteous living, as shown by the woman with
the issue of blood. God’s power is not reserved or limited.
I have three questions about
virtue that I would now like to focus on for the rest of my time.
#1 How can we, like the woman, experience the power
and strength associated with virtue?
#2 What does our “reaching out to Christ” look like
today?
#3 What blessings do we receive from living a life
full of virtue?
As I was studying this topic,
one of my favorite scripture stories came to mind, and as I read it again, I
gained new meaning from it.
As the mother of three boys,
I relate so much to the story of the 2000 stripling warriors.[5]
That’s the name that most people know them by, but I prefer to think of them as
“the sons of Helaman,” as Helaman himself calls them, because it gives a sense
of the tender feelings that he had for these young, righteous boys.
Here is just a bit of the backstory
of these young men. These are the sons of the Anti-Nephi-Lehi’s, which were a
group of Lamanites that were converted by the great missionary, Ammon. They
were so strongly converted that they buried their weapons of war and made a
covenant with God to never take them up again. Their sons had not made the
covenant, and when the Nephites were in desperate need of reinforcements, these
2000 sons volunteered to fight for their families and their religion.
I want to describe some of
the attributes of these young men as mentioned in Alma 53
Exceedingly valiant for
courage (v.20)
True at all times
Men of truth and soberness
(v. 21)
Kept the commandments
Walked uprightly
In an epistle to Moroni in Alma
chapter 56, Helaman says, “Therefore what say ye, my sons, will ye go against
them to battle?... They said unto me: Father, behold our God is with us, and he
will not suffer that we should fall…. Now they never had fought, yet they did
not fear death; and they did think more upon the liberty of their fathers than
they did upon their lives.”
The battle with the Lamanites
was fierce, and even though the Nephites came out victorious, many people
perished. Afterward, Helaman was anxious to find his sons because he feared
that they had been killed.
Verse 56 says, “But behold,
to my great joy, there had not one soul of them fallen to the earth; yea, and
they had fought as if with the strength of God; yea, never were men known to
have fought with such miraculous strength; and with such mighty power did they
fall upon the Lamanites.
When we talk about this
story, we often talk about how their strength came from their immense faith,
and it most certainly did. But, now I think I understand a little better. These young sons of Helaman not only had
great faith, but they were men of virtue. They were pure (clean) in heart
and mind because of their consistent righteous living. These young men were
granted strength and power (as it says
in the scriptures “miraculous strength” and “mighty power”) because of their
virtue.
Now we’ve talked about the
virtue of Christ and the virtue of the sons of Helaman. These examples might
seem hard to live up to and we might feel discouraged.
But remember, as Sister
Dalton said, “Virtue is the accumulation of thousands of small decisions and
actions.” We DO NOT have to be perfect to experience the power of virtue. We DO
need to try daily to do the things necessary to live a pure life.
Some things that I think must be included in a virtuous
(holy) life are:
*Reading and studying the
scriptures daily… 2 Nephi 32:3 “Feast upon the words of Christ, for behold the
words of Christ will tell you all things what ye should do.”
*Prayer… We have been commanded
to “pray always so that we can conquer Satan.”
*Keeping our minds focused on
wholesome things… With so much media in the form of television, Internet, and
video games available, it can not only become a distraction, but also take away
from our virtue if we are not careful.
*Attending or working toward
being able to attend the temple… The temple brings its own power to our lives,
but we must be worthy to enter by being clean and virtuous.
*Being filled with love for
our families and all those around us… President Hinckley said, “Love of God is
the root of all virtue, of all goodness, of all strength of character.” If we
truly and fully love God, we will also be filled with love for others.
#2 What does our “reaching out to the Savior” look like
today?
To be filled with virtue, we
must be consistent in righteous living. We must keep trying. We must seek to
improve. When we fail, as we surely will, we must repent. We must, like the
woman with the issue of blood, continue to reach out to Christ in faith, so
that His virtue can strengthen us and help us overcome our own weaknesses.
When I was a Sophomore in
college, I was a Relief Society teacher in my student ward. My life at the time
was crazy and so busy. I felt like I was drowning in tests, projects, and homework
assignments. My next lesson was on scripture study. I felt strongly impressed
to challenge the sisters to make scripture study a priority in their lives. As
the lesson was approaching, I realized that not only was that message for the sisters,
but it was specifically for me and my situation. For a week or two leading up
to my lesson, I decided to put my faith to the test and follow those promptings
that I had received. I got up early every day and studied my scriptures before
I did anything else. I made my scriptures a priority instead of leaving them
for the end.
During those two weeks, I was
able to accomplish so much more than before. My homework went faster, my days
passed more smoothly, and I truly felt an added strength from my meager
offering to Heavenly Father. When I taught that lesson, I was able to bear a
powerful testimony of scripture study because I had made the effort to act in
faith. Even the small increase of virtue in my life that was added by my
scripture study brought blessings.
I know that Heavenly Father
is so willing to pour out His blessings upon us when we sacrifice to follow
Him. With each righteous decision and drop of goodness, we are adding the power
of virtue to our lives.
I want to challenge you to think
about your own life. What is something that you need help with or something
that you need to change that will add virtue to your life. I encourage you to
reach out to Christ this week and ask for His power to help you.
#3 What blessings do we receive from living a life
full of virtue?
The strength and power of a
virtuous life can come in many forms. For the woman with the issue of blood, it
came in the form of healing. For the sons of Helaman, it came in literal
strength and the preservation of their lives. For each of us, it might look
different. I would like to mention just 2 of the many blessings that can be
ours through virtuous living.
The constant companionship of the Holy Ghost
Since the Holy Ghost does not dwell in unclean tabernacles,
virtue is prerequisite to receiving the Spirit’s guidance.
Jonathon’s Grandpa, Reed Hill, was one of the most virtuous men
I have had the privilege of knowing. He joined the Navy during World War II to
defend our country. Of His testimony of the Gospel, He simply said, “I felt
strongly that the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints was true, and I
never compromised my principles or it’s teachings. His virtue was tested many
times while he was in the military. His personal history documents many of these
instances:
In
Charleston Harbor before his group got ready to ship out, he remembers that
“The Ancon Gunners Gang asked me frequently to go on liberty (on shore) with
them, but I declined because they were heavy drinkers and picked up women of
questionable reputation.
Of his
time in the middle of the Pacific Ocean, he wrote, “One day as we cruised
westward, I was approached by the chief Petty Officer of the gunnery gang, and
I was given the keys to the alcohol locker. He said they had been losing some
of the alcohol [to men who were sneaking it], and he knew that I could be
trusted to keep it secured.”
About
Tokyo, he wrote “I was asked if I would consider being a barkeeper at the Officers’
Club in Tokyo because they knew that I didn’t drink. I declined, wanting no
part of that activity or environment.”
Living a life filled with virtue entitled
Grandpa Reed to receive strength in his life and qualified him for the constant
companionship of the Holy Ghost. One such time that this was evident occurred
during the battle of Okinawa. Grandpa was a gunner on the ship called the
Ancon. During the battle, they were constantly being attacked by Japanese
kamikazes that would try to slam into the ships. This sent shrapnel flying onto
the deck of the ship.
Grandpa wrote, “Soon it
became apparent, because of the red glow through the air vents, that the ship
was on fire. Those with me were sick with fear, but I had a comforting feeling
that all was going to be well.” The fire was soon quenched and the
kamikazes were shot down. Afterward Grandpa said, “Though I developed the reputation of having considerable courage, it
was only because of the comforting feeling I attribute to the Lord that I was
able to act as I did… I prayed for blessings and protection on a daily basis and
had the assurance of safety when we were being attacked.”[6]
The comfort of the Holy Ghost was with him, even in the most
frightening of situations. The Holy Ghost allowed him to be at peace during the
chaos of war.
The companionship of the Holy Ghost is vital in our lives. He
can comfort, warn of danger, give guidance, and testify of truth. As we live
with virtue, we can lay claim on this amazing blessing.
Confidence to stand before Christ and Heavenly Father
D&C 121:45 describes this
blessing that comes with virtue. It says, “Let virtue garnish thy thoughts
unceasingly; then shall thy confidence wax strong in the presence of God.” I
cannot think of a better feeling than standing before God and feeling
confidence.
Hopefully, you all haven’t
had this next experience that I want to share, but chances are pretty good that
some of you have. During High School, I took all the advanced math classes. In
fact, I got the highest grade in my Calculus class my Senior year. When I got
to college, the counselors suggested taking the more intense Calculus class
because it would be more similar to the Calculus class I had just finished. If
you ever hear someone say that, run the other way! I had no plans of doing
anything else with math in the future, but I confidently and naively went along
with the suggestion.
I struggled the entire
semester with the pace and difficulty of the class. I went to help sessions
weekly, and got tutoring from one of my FHE brothers, but my life was so busy with
other things that I still did not put in enough time to fully grasp the
concepts. When it was time for the Final, I sat down at the Testing Center and
turned my test over. My stomach dropped. I glanced through the whole test and felt
completely overwhelmed. I was not prepared for the test. I did not understand
the material well enough. There were only four questions. These were expected
to take 15-20 minutes each. When I finally turned in the test, I had only fully answered 2 of the 4 questions. That
was 15 years ago, and I still distinctly remember that terrible feeling of entering
and then leaving that testing center with zero confidence.
The end of the story is that
the Final test was so hard that pretty much everyone in the class failed. When
the teacher curved the test score, my pathetic effort was good enough to get me
a good grade in the class, but the damage was done. I finished that class
believing that I wasn’t good at math. Even today, I try to avoid math and instead
let Jonathon help the boys with their math homework whenever possible. Lack of
confidence in this subject continues to hold me back and leads me to avoid it
as much as possible. Could I regain that confidence? With some effort…yes.
This is not the way that we
want to feel when we approach Heavenly Father for help now in this life or when
we stand before Christ and Heavenly Father at the end of our lives. We want to
have full confidence that we are doing our very best.
Like my math example, our
spiritual confidence is often determined by the spiritual successes and
failures that we experience. When we continually strive to do those daily
things that add virtue to our lives, we will be strengthened and, in turn, gain
confidence. That is not to say that we will never fail again, but through our daily strivings, our confidence
will be in the Lord’s ability to help us through our struggles. We will
receive peace knowing that doing the very best we can and repenting when we sin
will be enough.
In a world where virtue and
holiness seem to be disappearing, it is more important than ever to seek for
those things which will add virtue to our lives. We cannot get lost in the
vices of the world because each one of us has a great mission to accomplish.
Sister Dalton said, “We simply cannot do the work we have been reserved and
prepared to do unless we can access the strength and confidence that comes by
living a virtuous life.” I know that these words are true, and I am going to
make a more concerted effort in my life to let virtue garnish my thoughts (and
my actions) unceasingly so that as I reach out to the Savior, His virtue will
empower me and bless my family. That is my prayer for each of us.
In the
name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
[1] Mark 5: 25-34
[2]
D. Todd Christopherson, “The Moral Force of
Women,” Ensign, Nov. 2013, 29, 31
[3]
James E. Faust, “The Virtues of Righteous
Daughters of God,” Ensign, May 2003, 108.
[4]
Elaine S. Dalton “A Return to Virtue” Liahona,
Nov. 2018
[5]
Alma 53 and 56
[6]
My Life History: An Autobiography of Reed Adams
Hill, pg. 62
1 comment:
WOW Sarah. This was a BEAUTIFUL talk and so inspiring!!! I have always LOVED the thought of virtue being power and strength. Your stories were so wonderful! They really illustrated the principal in action. And wow, Jonathon’s grandpa… I would love to read his life history! He sounds like such an amazing man! And you are truly an amazing lady! Thanks for sharing this!
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